WSET.com - ABC13Working Dads by Bill Foy

Father's Day in the era of "the great recession" seems to take on a new meaning. And this year, there's some good news and some not so good news.

The good news this Father's Day is that 84% of working fathers who were laid off in the last year are back at work and hopefully providing for their families with full time employment.

The bad news is they are working longer and harder than ever, and no doubt spending less quality time with their children and families. One out of five dads says they are working more than 50 hours a week, and bringing home work at least three nights each week. Even when they are home, many are more connected with work than ever, checking voicemail and e-mails while supposedly spending quality time at family events.

On the whole, I accept all of this as good news. Traditionally, fathers have taken on the role of provider. Clearly, that's tough to do without a job. Dads who want to work but can't find employment are really in a tough spot. Given the choice, I think most dads would rather be good providers even as they struggle to come up with enough quality family time. I was fortunate to have a dad who did both and I considered myself extremely lucky. Unfortunately, the new reality of fathers and families is that often both aren't possible.

On Father's Day 2011, I hope you get some spend some quality time with your dad. Be sure to take a minute to let him know how all of the little things he's done for you have meant so much. That, more than any tie or card, will make his day.