By MATT SEDENSKY
Associated Press
Most died at the very start of their young lives,
tiny victims taken in a way not fit for anyone regardless of age. Others
found their life's work in sheltering little ones, teaching them,
caring for them, treating them as their own. After the gunfire ended
Friday at Sandy Hook Elementary School, the trail of loss was more than
many could bear: 20 students and six adults at the school, the gunman's
mother at home, and the gunman himself.
A glimpse of some of those who died:
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Charlotte Bacon, 6
They were supposed to be for the holidays, but
finally on Friday, after hearing much begging, Charlotte Bacon's mother
relented and let her wear the new pink dress and boots to school.
It was the last outfit the outgoing redhead would
ever pick out. Charlotte's older brother, Guy, was also in the school
but was not shot.
Her parents, JoAnn and Joel, had lived in Newtown
for four or five years, JoAnn's brother John Hagen, of Nisswa, Minn.,
told Newsday.
"She was going to go some places in this world,"
Hagen told the newspaper. "This little girl could light up the room for
anyone."
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Olivia Engel, 6
The images of Olivia Engel will live far beyond her
short lifetime. There she is, visiting with Santa Claus, or feasting on
a slice of birthday cake. There's the one of her swinging a pink
baseball bat, and another posing on a boat. In some, she models a pretty
white dress; in others, she makes a silly face.
Dan Merton, a longtime friend of the girl's family,
says he could never forget the child, and he has much to say when he
thinks of her.
"She loved attention," he said. "She had perfect manners, perfect table manners. She was the teacher's pet, the line leader."
On Friday, Merton said, she was simply excited to go to school and then return home and make a gingerbread house.
"Her only crime," he said, "is being a wiggly, smiley 6-year-old."
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Dawn Hochsprung, 47, principal
Dawn Hochsprung's pride in Sandy Hook Elementary
was clear. She regularly tweeted photos from her time as principal
there, giving indelible glimpses of life at a place now known for
tragedy. Just this week, it was an image of fourth-graders rehearsing
for their winter concert; days before that, the tiny hands of
kindergartners exchanging play money at their makeshift grocery store.
She viewed her school as a model, telling The
Newtown Bee in 2010 that "I don't think you could find a more positive
place to bring students to every day." She had worked to make Sandy Hook
a place of safety, too, and in October, the 47-year-old Hochsprung
shared a picture of the school's evacuation drill with the message
"safety first." When the unthinkable came, she was ready to defend.
Officials said she died while lunging at the gunman in an attempt to overtake him.
"She had an extremely likable style about her,"
said Gerald Stomski, first selectman of Woodbury, where Hochsprung lived
and had taught. "She was an extremely charismatic principal while she
was here."
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Madeleine Hsu, 6
Dr. Matthew Velsmid was at Madeleine's house on
Saturday, tending to her stricken family. He said the family did not
want to comment.
Velsmid said that after hearing of the shooting, he
went to the triage area to provide medical assistance but there were no
injuries to treat.
"We were waiting for casualties to come out, and
there was nothing. There was no need, unfortunately," he said. "This is
the darkest thing I've ever walked into, by far."
Velsmid's daughter, who attends another school, lost three of her friends.
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Catherine Hubbard, 6
A family friend turned reporters away from the
house, but Catherine's parents released a statement expressing gratitude
to emergency responders and for the support of the community.
"We are greatly saddened by the loss of our
beautiful daughter, Catherine Violet and our thoughts and prayers are
with the other families who have been affected by this tragedy,"
Jennifer and Matthew Hubbard said. "We ask that you continue to pray for
us and the other families who have experienced loss in this tragedy."
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Chase Kowalski, 7
Chase Kowalski was always outside, playing in the
backyard, riding his bicycle. Just last week, he was visiting neighbor
Kevin Grimes, telling him about completing - and winning - his first
mini-triathlon.
"You couldn't think of a better child," Grimes said.
Grimes' own five children all attended Sandy Hook,
too. Cars lined up outside the Kowalskis' ranch home Saturday, and a
state trooper's car idled in the driveway. Grimes spoke of the boy only
in the present tense.
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Nancy Lanza, 52, gunman's mother
She once was known simply for the game nights she
hosted and the holiday decorations she put up at her house. Now Nancy
Lanza is known as her son's first victim.
Authorities say her 20-year-old son Adam gunned her
down before killing 26 others at Sandy Hook. The two shared a home in a
well-to-do Newtown neighborhood, but details were slow to emerge of who
she was and what might have led her son to carry out such horror.
Kingston, N.H., Police Chief Donald Briggs Jr. said
Nancy Lanza once lived in the community and was a kind, considerate and
loving person. The former stockbroker at John Hancock in Boston was
well-respected, Briggs said.
Court records show Lanza and her ex-husband, Peter
Lanza, filed for divorce in 2008. He lives in Stamford and is a tax
director at General Electric. A neighbor, Rhonda Cullens, said she knew
Nancy Lanza from get-togethers she had hosted to play Bunco, a dice
game. She said her neighbor had enjoyed gardening.
"She was a very nice lady," Cullens said. "She was just like all the rest of us in the neighborhood, just a regular person."
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Jesse Lewis, 6
Six-year-old Jesse Lewis had hot chocolate with his
favorite breakfast sandwich - sausage, egg and cheese - at the
neighborhood deli before going to school Friday morning.
Jesse and his parents were regulars at the Misty
Vale Deli in Sandy Hook, Conn., owner Angel Salazar told The Wall Street
Journal.
"He was always friendly; he always liked to talk," Salazar said.
Jesse's family has a collection of animals he enjoyed playing with, and he was learning to ride horseback.
Family friend Barbara McSperrin told the Journal that Jesse was "a typical 6-year-old little boy, full of life."
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Ana Marquez-Greene, 6
A year ago, 6-year-old Ana Marquez-Greene was
reveling in holiday celebrations with her extended family on her first
trip to Puerto Rico. This year will be heartbreakingly different.
The girl's grandmother, Elba Marquez, said the
family moved to Connecticut just two months ago, drawn from Canada, in
part, by Sandy Hook's sterling reputation. The grandmother's brother,
Jorge Marquez, is mayor of a Puerto Rican town and said the child's
9-year-old brother also was at the school but escaped safely.
Elba Marquez had just visited the new home over
Thanksgiving and is perplexed by what happened. "What happened does not
match up with the place where they live," she said.
A video spreading across the Internet shows a
confident Ana hitting every note as she sings "Come, Thou Almighty
King." She flashes a big grin and waves to the camera when she's done.
Jorge Marquez confirmed the girl's father is
saxophonist Jimmy Greene, who wrote on Facebook that he was trying to
"work through this nightmare."
"As much as she's needed here and missed by her
mother, brother and me, Ana beat us all to paradise," he wrote. "I love
you sweetie girl."
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James Mattioli, 6
The upstate New York town of Sherrill is thinking
of Cindy Mattioli, who grew up there and lost her son James in the
school shooting in Connecticut.
"It's a terrible tragedy, and we're a tight
community," Mayor William Vineall told the Utica Observer-Dispatch.
"Everybody will be there for them, and our thoughts and prayers are
there for them."
James' grandparents, Jack and Kathy Radley, still live in the city, the newspaper reported.
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Anne Marie Murphy, 52, teacher
A happy soul. A good mother, wife and daughter. Artistic, fun-loving, witty and hardworking.
Remembering their daughter, Anne Marie Murphy, her
parents had no shortage of adjectives to offer Newsday. When news of the
shooting broke, Hugh and Alice McGowan waited for word of their
daughter as hours ticked by. And then it came.
Authorities told the couple their daughter was a
hero who helped shield some of her students from the rain of bullets. As
the grim news arrived, the victim's mother reached for her rosary.
"You don't expect your daughter to be murdered," her father told the newspaper. "It happens on TV. It happens elsewhere."
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Emilie Parker, 6
Quick to cheer up those in need of a smile, Emilie Parker never missed a chance to draw a picture or make a card.
Her father, Robbie Parker, fought back tears as he
described the beautiful, blond, always-smiling girl who loved to try new
things, except foods.
Parker, one of the first parents to publicly talk
about his loss, expressed no animosity for the gunman, even as he
struggled to explain the death to his other two children, ages 3 and 4.
He's sustained by the fact that the world is better for having had
Emilie in it.
"I'm so blessed to be her dad," he said.
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Noah Pozner, 6
The way Noah Pozner's parents saw it, no schools in
New York could compare with those in Newtown, a relative told Newsday.
So they moved their family - Noah, his twin sister and his 8-year-old
sister.
"At this stage, two out of three survived. ...
That's sad," said Noah's uncle Arthur Pozner, of New York City's
Brooklyn borough. "The reason they moved to that area is because they
did not consider any school in New York state on the same level. That's
one of the reasons they moved, for safety and education."
Noah's siblings were also students there but were not hurt. Noah's uncle recalled him as "extremely mature."
"When I was his age, I was not like him," Pozner told the newspaper. "Very well brought up. Extremely bright. Extremely bright."
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Lauren Gabrielle Rousseau, 30, teacher
Lauren Rousseau had spent years working as a
substitute teacher and doing other jobs. So she was thrilled when she
finally realized her goal this fall to become a full-time teacher at
Sandy Hook.
Her mother, Teresa Rousseau, a copy editor at the
Danbury News-Times, released a statement Saturday that said state police
told them just after midnight that she was among the victims.
"Lauren wanted to be a teacher from before she even
went to kindergarten," she said. "We will miss her terribly and will
take comfort knowing that she had achieved that dream."
Her mother said she was thrilled to get the job.
"It was the best year of her life," she told the newspaper.
Rousseau has been called gentle, spirited and
active. She had planned to see "The Hobbit" with her boyfriend Friday
and had baked cupcakes for a party they were to attend afterward. She
was born in Danbury, and attended Danbury High, college at the
University of Connecticut and graduate school at the University of
Bridgeport.
She was a lover of music, dance and theater.
"I'm used to having people die who are older," her mother said, "not the person whose room is up over the kitchen."
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Mary Sherlach, 56, school psychologist
When the shots rang out, Mary Sherlach threw herself into the danger.
Janet Robinson, the superintendent of Newtown
Public Schools, said Sherlach and the school's principal ran toward the
shooter. They lost their own lives, rushing toward him.
Even as Sherlach neared retirement, her job at
Sandy Hook was one she loved. Those who knew her called her a wonderful
neighbor, a beautiful person, a dedicated educator.
Her son-in-law, Eric Schwartz, told the South
Jersey Times that Sherlach rooted on the Miami Dolphins, enjoyed
visiting the Finger Lakes, relished helping children overcome their
problems. She had planned to leave work early on Friday, he said, but
never had the chance. In a news conference Saturday, he told reporters
the loss was devastating, but that Sherlach was doing what she loved.
"Mary felt like she was doing God's work," he said, "working with the children."
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Victoria Soto, 27, teacher
She beams in snapshots. Her enthusiasm and cheer was evident. She was doing, those who knew her say, what she loved.
And now, Victoria Soto is being called a hero.
Though details of the 27-year-old teacher's death
remained fuzzy, her name has been invoked again and again as a portrait
of selflessness and humanity among unfathomable evil. Those who knew her
said they weren't surprised by reports she shielded her first-graders
from danger.
"She put those children first. That's all she ever
talked about," said a friend, Andrea Crowell. "She wanted to do her best
for them, to teach them something new every day."
Photos of Soto show her always with a wide smile,
in pictures of her at her college graduation and in mundane daily life.
She looks so young, barely an adult herself. Her goal was simply to be a
teacher.
"You have a teacher who cared more about her
students than herself," said Mayor John Harkins of Stratford, the town
Soto hailed from and where more than 300 people gathered for a memorial
service Saturday night. "That speaks volumes to her character, and her
commitment and dedication."
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Associated Press writers Denise Lavoie, Mark Scolforo, Allen Breed and Danica Coto contributed to this report.
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